Do you find the same “Groundhog day” discussion or disagreement with your partner keeps coming up, escalating into a row and spoiling an otherwise good relationship?
Would you like to stop those eye rolling moments where you think “here we go again” yet you both seem powerless to get out of this hurtful, destructive cycle by yourselves?
In couples counselling the three of us take an objective, non-judgemental look at the relationship you and your partner have created between you. We acknowledge what each likes and enjoys about it, investigate what drives those upsetting cycles and share what each would like to be different.
The aim is to help you both make sense of what is really going on in your relationship. 9 times out of 10, the issue ISN’T the thing you’re scrapping about but how each of you feels about the thing. We’ll get at what deeper, older emotional wounds, vulnerabilities, expectations or resentments are flaring up in the hope that, through this better mutual understanding, you each feel a softening towards the other and are motivated to find a kinder, more constructive pattern of relating as a result.